By Bonny Blake
You have been dating your man for some time and you feel it’s time to take the relationship to the next level. You ask yourself – How can I get him to fall in love with me? Think about falling in love this way…it’s like cooking up a feast. You first have to make your preparations, you have to set aside precious time, and you have to patiently wait for it to get done. And, like eating a gourmet meal, falling in love is a delicious experience that you’ll never want to see end.
You are the only person you can be
This is the most fundamental piece of advice a woman can have if they are looking to get their man to fall in love with them. The key word in that phrase is, fall in love with you. Your goal is to have your man love you, the person you are, not some fake person you made up to please him. So what if your fashion sense is funky and your wit is sharp? That’s you, baby, so let it glow! You don’t want to act as if you are someone you are not. This performance will get pretty draining fast. Acting this way will only make you sad and miserable, and your fellow will sense that something is not right.
Leave him be the man.
You can be as equal as you want in your profession, but when it comes to the man you love, let him play the strong, protecting role. It makes you no less equal if you let him get the door for you, or pull out a chair for you. Let him act a bit like Tarzan or Lancelot! Play up the damsel in distress role even just a little bit, and odds are good you’ll have him eating out of your hand in no time!
A laugh a day…
If I was dating a man, and I was trying to figure out how to make him fall in love with me, one of the first things that would come to mind would be to always have a sense of humor and know how to have fun. Men can’t stand boredom. They go for girls who aren’t afraid to laugh and joke and just plain have fun. Get rid of the up tight lady character and get a little funky. You want to be laughing together for a long time.
Be Open and Honest
Open up and share what’s on your mind. What are your dreams, hopes, fears and quirks? Share these with him and ask him to share his with you. Most likely the ideal answer to the question of how to get him to fall in love with you is to figure out how to be yourself, and do it.